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A Family Day

Today was an unusual day - two events at the same time. Today is a National day and a family day - Mothering Sunday and my ‘baby’ brother’s 23rd birthday. Both important days to me and mine so it feels almost a shame to have them both on the same day. But, well, there you go - these things happen - c’est la vie!

First up, Mum. As it should be.

Mum

Recently, I have had a re-affirming of just how much she means to me. I know that sounds stupid as you should never really even consider your mum not being one of the most important people in your life. But when she got taken into hospital my life felt like it stopped. I ran all the horrifying scenarios in my head and I liked not one of them. She has been my rock and my foundation through all the crap things in my life. She is the first person I tell all my good news to. Just looking at her across the room as I write this, she is laughing at a film, and it makes my heart feel warm to see her happy. Mum. You rock. Even though it is impossible to get you to sit still in front of a camera.

Brother

Another person who rocks is my little brother. He struggled at school, and was diagnosed with dyspraxia and dyslexia at an early age. It sounds arrogant, but he had it tough as everyone expected him to be as academically gifted as me. What they didn’t see was how unbelievably good he is at everything else. Adam knows plants, and is the most logical person I know. Yesterday, he took control of the whole tree-cutting day and was totally matter of fact about the whole thing. He took no risks and worked so hard. That’s the thing about my brother, He’s very diligent, caring and dedicated; but very quiet so no one notices it. I would want to yell form the tree tops ‘look what I did’ but Adam? No. He will quietly sit at the back and just enjoy the way it makes everyone else’s life easier.

I am extremely lucky to have both of them in my life. It makes me proud to say they are my family.

So happy Mother’s Day, Mum, and Happy Birthday, Adam. I raise my glass to both of you.

Filed under: Family | 3Comments | Author:bec | March 2nd, 2008