The Ram is more of a tiger where sex is concerned and, like many other sleek animals, loves the hunt — that steady pursuit of the ultimate prize. Aries is a physical and fearless lover and is blessed with the stamina to go all night long. They are not afraid to experiment sexually in their quest for pleasure, which means an open-minded lover is a must. The Mile-High Club must have been invented for these folks! It’s safe to say that Aries’ lover must be able to satisfy, or the Ram will move on. The dominant sexual partner will likely be the Ram, and while eroticism is important, a mental connection is also favored by this sign. As if Aries weren’t passionate and demanding enough, they also want to be made to feel secure in a sexual relationship, lest jealousy rear its ugly head. - astrology.com

Being a fire sign sucks.

The constant bubbling just under the surface, the total inability to finish anything as everything happens too slow, having to deal with other people who just don’t know how quickly you need to move at to keep up with yourself, and the not being able to guarantee the weather round your birthday.

‘…loves the hunt…’

I really do - I have that problem of boredom too, once I have what I wanted I don’t want it any more.

‘…not afraid to experiment…’

I’m try-sexual - I’ll try anything once. Well, most things - there are some very clear no no’s…

‘… dominant sexual partner…’

Oh yes, definitely… but then see… ‘mental connection… made to feel secure…’

- totally screwed. Totally bloody screwed. So, boiled down to it - it’s all about the wanting and needing at the same time - the hunger for (as Peter Gabriel would say) ‘the touch’ and the needing to feel part of something bigger.

‘…jealousy’

Will, and does, drive me mad. I become fixated rather quickly and then get all possessive… which really bites into my feelings of low self worth - ‘That’s mine, all mine but I don’t deserve it so please you take it… away from me…’ It’s a little noisy some times in there. I imagine this is where all the good drunken stories come from.

This is all a round about way of saying happy birthday to the incredible and gorgeous Penelope (a fellow Arien) who is having a huge slice of cake well, tomorrow if I get this posted on time (the 9th) -the 100th day of the year!

Am a little annoyed that I will have to have my 30th on the 101st day this year but, heh, what can you do?!

Well, what you can do is bob over to It’s me… Penelope and wish her many many good things and then donate some money to RAINN… See, Ram? Not subtle.

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