Comments on: Stop Feeling

By: Bec

Bec — Fri, 11 Apr 2008 22:43:22 +0000

Karl - Normally I would reply to a comment like this with something flippant like ‘no problem, all part of the service’ but that feels wrong,,, so thank you for reading.

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By: Karl

Karl — Fri, 11 Apr 2008 00:04:04 +0000

Yeah, not easy to read, but thanks for sharing it.

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By: Bec

Bec — Thu, 10 Apr 2008 21:56:43 +0000

Selma - Don’t feel particularly brace posting this but it does feel like some of the guilt and shame I have been feeling is starting to leave. Self destruction is a dangerous hobby and one I am glad to, hopefully, see the back of.

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By: Selma

Selma — Thu, 10 Apr 2008 00:31:39 +0000

The things we do. I know. I have been in similar situations thinking the entire time: “What the f**k am I doing?” It’s almost like we’re trying to punish ourselves just for being alive. When I used to get on one of those self-destructive bents in my younger days I used to scare myself. I’m glad he wasn’t violent towards you and I’m glad you posted this. I applaud your courage.

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By: Bec

Bec — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 22:39:02 +0000

Jo - Moving was such a good thing - it broke a destructive line into pieces and let me try and sort it out… Try… When I think of that time and what it could have lead to… That’s my bad place!

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By: Jo

Jo — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 14:05:59 +0000

I think I would have moved too. At least one good thing is that you look back and go ‘oh my god, what was I thinking’, rather than some people who just get embroiled in a circle of behaviour they can’t get out of, which eventually leads to them getting hurt badly, or worse.

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By: Bec

Bec — Tue, 08 Apr 2008 22:07:40 +0000

Avitable - I hovered over the Publish button for quite some time - more time than any other. It felt a little like the peace I imagine you get after confession, and then the ‘oh crap’ panic set in!

Simply Jane - I have let too many events in my past define me and have ignored the present because of them. I am starting to understand this now.

Bec’s last blog post..Stop Feeling

By: Simply Jane

Simply Jane — Tue, 08 Apr 2008 13:27:36 +0000

Holy shit. It took real guts to write this, and balls of steel to publish it. But the greatest courage is in acknowledging and accepting our past, and not letting it define us. You are on your way there, as well.

You have more strength than you realize. I’m proud to be your friend.

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By: Avitable

Avitable — Tue, 08 Apr 2008 12:18:54 +0000

You’ve survived and you’re wiser for it, so that’s good, too. This was definitely very tough to read. I’m glad that you were able to post it, though.

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By: Bec

Bec — Tue, 08 Apr 2008 09:46:28 +0000

Carly - I am grateful for the lessons I learnt from these experiences, but I still regret them. I have now accepted them as part of who I was and am trying to change that part of me, and (dare I say it?) learn to love myself…

Penelope - I’d totally take the ‘Eternal Sunshine’ treatment if I could. Yes, birthday - on Thursday when I shall be hitting 30 with a large hammer and a bottle of something quite strong.

Bec’s last blog post..Stop Feeling