Comments on: I Feel The Need… http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/ I'm not 'boring'. I'm English. Thu, 04 Dec 2008 01:47:25 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 By: Stop Feeling » Out Of My Tree http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-894 Stop Feeling » Out Of My Tree Mon, 07 Apr 2008 23:04:00 +0000 http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-894 [...] my heart broke I became a different person that stopped hoping for hearts and flowers and well… became a [...] [...] my heart broke I became a different person that stopped hoping for hearts and flowers and well… became a [...]

]]> By: First Time » Out Of My Tree http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-850 First Time » Out Of My Tree Thu, 03 Apr 2008 00:40:35 +0000 http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-850 [...] we all know that I am a sucker for a good line … and that wasn’t a particularly good line. It took ten whole minutes of him begging [...] [...] we all know that I am a sucker for a good line … and that wasn’t a particularly good line. It took ten whole minutes of him begging [...]

]]> By: bec http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-554 bec Tue, 26 Feb 2008 00:12:04 +0000 http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-554 lia - 8 years have now passed since then,... nearly 9... time has already done it's magnification thing... I think you're right in repect of the fact that I have to take a step forwards and risk myself to feel that magic again. lia - 8 years have now passed since then,… nearly 9… time has already done it’s magnification thing… I think you’re right in repect of the fact that I have to take a step forwards and risk myself to feel that magic again.

]]> By: lia http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-553 lia Tue, 26 Feb 2008 00:05:27 +0000 http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-553 So hard to read something so honest. My story is different, but similar, and the impact leaves deep scars. Try not let time magnify the impact of this - GF sounds like a hard, needy selfish young woman - but let her go and what ever you do don't let yourself not fall head over heels for fear of being hurt again, taking the risk is often the hardest step forward! L. So hard to read something so honest. My story is different, but similar, and the impact leaves deep scars. Try not let time magnify the impact of this - GF sounds like a hard, needy selfish young woman - but let her go and what ever you do don’t let yourself not fall head over heels for fear of being hurt again, taking the risk is often the hardest step forward! L.

]]> By: bec http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-552 bec Mon, 25 Feb 2008 22:24:05 +0000 http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-552 Miss Britt - Being human sucks really badly. I didn't mean to make it sound like I am the only one - heh, I have sat on enough carpets with enough friends and bottles of cheap wine to know that I am not the only one... The funny thing is if I had a time machine and could change things. I don't think I would shut it down even with the knowledge of what was to come. Miss Britt - Being human sucks really badly. I didn’t mean to make it sound like I am the only one - heh, I have sat on enough carpets with enough friends and bottles of cheap wine to know that I am not the only one…

The funny thing is if I had a time machine and could change things. I don’t think I would shut it down even with the knowledge of what was to come.

]]> By: Miss Britt http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-551 Miss Britt Mon, 25 Feb 2008 22:16:24 +0000 http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-551 You were NOT stupid for falling in love with him. You were NOT stupid for not shutting it down. You're not the only one who loves and is lied to. Or loves the wrong person. Or is rejected. Or embarrassed. Or scared. Or humiliated. Bec, that does not make you wrong or broken or unlovable. That's part of what makes you human, babe. <em>Miss Britt's last blog post..<a href='http://miss-britt.com/2008/02/my-glamorous-night-as-a-centerfold/' rel="nofollow">My Glamorous Night As A Centerfold</a></em> You were NOT stupid for falling in love with him.

You were NOT stupid for not shutting it down.

You’re not the only one who loves and is lied to. Or loves the wrong person. Or is rejected. Or embarrassed. Or scared. Or humiliated.

Bec, that does not make you wrong or broken or unlovable. That’s part of what makes you human, babe.

Miss Britt’s last blog post..My Glamorous Night As A Centerfold

]]> By: Bec http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-550 Bec Mon, 25 Feb 2008 22:04:42 +0000 http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-550 ungraceful girl - Patience has never been one of my virtues... I know you are right... it just all feels true about after 30, getting married and lightning a la Sleepless in Seattle. God, I have to stop watching chick flicks! Selma - I have been not expecting it for years... when is it my turn?! Sigh... The good ones are always either taken, gay or live several thousand miles away! SJ - I have played every scenario through my head with those two. I got round to they deserved each other... and that's how I kept going. And now I have to find my hope... or something to get through 30... And, yes, I do feel as dumb as a sack of door knobs for saying that. kapgar - From them? No. A quick Google finds that he is married to someone else, and has a kid on the way. She has disappeared off the planet - so maybe dreams do come true?! Hilly - I felt like I was in a bad afternoon straight to TV movie of the week thing. Not good. Thank you Hilly. It means a lot to know that I am not alone in my what feels like insanity. Penelope - Spineless twat? My friends at uni who knew him would more than agree with you there! I do actually wonder what I would do if I got into a relationship now though. How would I react? Would I be so 'grateful' that I became one of those horribly clingy women? Or would I play it so cool he wouldn't know what the hell was going on? Neurotic mess springs to mind! <em>Bec's last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/OutOfMyTree/~3/240608520/' rel="nofollow">I Feel The Need…</a></em> ungraceful girl - Patience has never been one of my virtues… I know you are right… it just all feels true about after 30, getting married and lightning a la Sleepless in Seattle. God, I have to stop watching chick flicks!

Selma - I have been not expecting it for years… when is it my turn?! Sigh… The good ones are always either taken, gay or live several thousand miles away!

SJ - I have played every scenario through my head with those two. I got round to they deserved each other… and that’s how I kept going. And now I have to find my hope… or something to get through 30… And, yes, I do feel as dumb as a sack of door knobs for saying that.

kapgar - From them? No. A quick Google finds that he is married to someone else, and has a kid on the way. She has disappeared off the planet - so maybe dreams do come true?!

Hilly - I felt like I was in a bad afternoon straight to TV movie of the week thing. Not good.

Thank you Hilly. It means a lot to know that I am not alone in my what feels like insanity.

Penelope - Spineless twat? My friends at uni who knew him would more than agree with you there! I do actually wonder what I would do if I got into a relationship now though. How would I react? Would I be so ‘grateful’ that I became one of those horribly clingy women? Or would I play it so cool he wouldn’t know what the hell was going on? Neurotic mess springs to mind!

Bec’s last blog post..I Feel The Need…

]]> By: Penelope http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-548 Penelope Mon, 25 Feb 2008 19:15:09 +0000 http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-548 I had the same thought as SJ, I think the GF had a LOT to do with that, he's still a spineless twat though! I don't have any answers for the rest of it, I've been on my own for so long that I don't think I could cope with a bloke around full time now! There's nothing wrong with becoming a scary cat lady ;o) I do know that some days it all feels like shit and I also wonder if this is as good as it gets. I DO know that. <em>Penelope's last blog post..<a href='http://www.itsmepenelope.com/2008/02/here-he-is.html' rel="nofollow">Here he is!</a></em> I had the same thought as SJ, I think the GF had a LOT to do with that, he’s still a spineless twat though!
I don’t have any answers for the rest of it, I’ve been on my own for so long that I don’t think I could cope with a bloke around full time now! There’s nothing wrong with becoming a scary cat lady ;o)
I do know that some days it all feels like shit and I also wonder if this is as good as it gets. I DO know that.

Penelope’s last blog post..Here he is!

]]> By: Hilly http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-547 Hilly Mon, 25 Feb 2008 15:32:57 +0000 http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-547 I'm actually speechless. I've never really heard of something that heinous actually happening except in movies so I can't even imagine how you felt at the time. Know that I empathize on the rest of the post and sympathize. I've got so many thoughts, as you knew I would, with regard to loving yourself and finding love no matter what size, shape, age. I think that I will make a whole post dedicated to you and this topic tomorrow....yep, that's the idea. Lots of hugs for you....mwah. <em>Hilly's last blog post..<a href='http://www.snackiepoo.com/blog/2008/02/putting-the-gre.html' rel="nofollow">Putting the "Great" Back in Grateful....</a></em> I’m actually speechless. I’ve never really heard of something that heinous actually happening except in movies so I can’t even imagine how you felt at the time.

Know that I empathize on the rest of the post and sympathize. I’ve got so many thoughts, as you knew I would, with regard to loving yourself and finding love no matter what size, shape, age. I think that I will make a whole post dedicated to you and this topic tomorrow….yep, that’s the idea.

Lots of hugs for you….mwah.

Hilly’s last blog post..Putting the “Great” Back in Grateful….

]]> By: kapgar http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-546 kapgar Mon, 25 Feb 2008 12:42:45 +0000 http://www.outofmytree.co.uk/2008/02/24/i-feel-the-need/#comment-546 Ohmigod. I can't believe all that happened to you. That's insane. So was she for that matter. Have you heard anything at all about them? Not necessarily from them, just about them? <em>kapgar's last blog post..<a href='http://kapgar.typepad.com/my_weblog/2008/02/say-my-name.html' rel="nofollow">Say my name...</a></em> Ohmigod. I can’t believe all that happened to you. That’s insane. So was she for that matter.

Have you heard anything at all about them? Not necessarily from them, just about them?

kapgar’s last blog post..Say my name…

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